I’ve been thinking of posting this for a while now. Over the years I’ve heard from so many people – they make whatever choices “they” want and justify it by saying, it doesn’t matter what they do – it’s all God’s Will, He does what He wants to do anyways.

I believe God has given us the ability to make choices and not all choices we make will be what God wanted us to do. That doesn’t mean He stops loving us or punishes us but it wasn’t His perfect will for our lives. God has given us free will. Either we wait upon Him to guide us or we make our own choices and hope it was the right one.

In Romans 12:2 it doesn’t say that whatever we do, no matter what, that we’ll be in the “good and acceptable and perfect Will of God.”

This is from a devotion I read today – I hope it further explains what I’m trying to say.

Wisdom from Proverbs:

There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death. 16:25
Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord, and turn away from evil. 3:7
Ponder the path of your feet; then all your ways will be sure. 4:26
When a man’s ways please the Lord, he makes even his enemies to be at peace with him. 16:7
The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps. 16:9

Not a day goes by that you and I don’t make decisions that turn the direction of our lives. We base some of our choices on what we know for sure; others are judgment calls. Proverbs 16:25 has a built-in alarm system that warns us, “There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death.” When you base your decisions on what seems right to you, flags should fly up all around when you read this verse. Its caution is so specific and so current that we need to take every word seriously.

Notice, “There is a way . . . ” not there was a way. This warning is not leftover from when you were in high school. Nor is it talking about your future. This flag is for your life today, wherever you are. If you’re 25 or 45 or 65, there is a way that seems like the way to go and you’re looking right at it. “There’s a way that seems right to a man . . . ” Are you pondering a decision, maybe even taken several steps in a certain direction, that just feels like the right decision because it’s smooth and sunny and fun and fast? Make no mistake about it; most likely it is the wrong way.

Remember when Jonah ran from God? He went down to Joppa and found a boat waiting in the harbour that took him in the opposite direction from where God told him to go. It must be right; the boat was just waiting there for me. Listen, Satan can put a lot of wrong ways right in front of the person who is willing to consider it. You’ve got to go find the right way. The wrong way will usually come after you.

The problem is that all of this only “seems right to a man…” because our minds are darkened by sin, our hearts are impatient for pleasure, and our wills are weighed down with the old nature and the inclination to sin.Don’t trust what seems right to you—that’s leaning on your own understanding. Proverbs 3:6 says, “In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight.”

Trust God with everything you’ve got, ask Him for wisdom, and He will make the path of your life plain and straight. He’ll make it so you don’t have to waste a lot of time going down roads that just seem right but paths that you know is right in God’s eyes.


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  1. Choices are what make a person who they are. Not the huge, enormous choices (although they do have a bearing), but the everday decisions. Will I cheat on this exam? Will I keep that extra $5.00? Can I just bend the truth a little on this financial report? Life is filled with endless choices each day.

    Thanks for the reminder!

  2. A lot of wisdom in this post. Sobering and thought provoking. May I ask who wrote the devotional you quoted?

  3. Hi… I’m here to say hi and thanks for the note. Great post.

    I agree He has given us a free will to choose but when we deviate from what He’s already stated in His Word then we fall out of His will (but not His grace) and we then have to face the consequences of choosing anything outside of His will.

  4. You’re very right looneybin and thank goodness for His grace and mercy!!

  5. great post Shashi…and you can do your 7 things anyway you want…it’s your choice.

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