At the age of 26, would you have turned down a regular paycheque and benefits with promises of raises and promotions? Would you have gone out and planted a church on your own from scratch?!

A leap of Faith took place, and a couple of decades later… That’s what this blog post is about.

That’s what my husband did TWENTY Easter weekend’s ago!

In 1992, Dave heard God tell him to plant a church; since it wasn’t going to happen with the denomination he was in at that moment, he left the Ottawa Valley and moved back in with his parents in Kitchener, Ontario. In 1993, he started meeting with five other people in his parent’s living room. Soon, they moved into a bar in one of our local universities, then into the rec room of a local community centre. That’s where I met him, back in the summer of ’95.

He made $1,200 that first year but was able to more than double it to $2,500 the second year. 

In 1996, with about 15 families, we moved into our first location, where we didn’t have to set up and tear down chairs and equipment each and every Sunday. It was on the second floor, sandwiched between a second-hand bookstore and marijuana-filled practice rooms reserved for sketchy musicians.  We fixed up the place as best we could, but in the 100+-year-old building where heat wasn’t always reliable… we only lasted a few years before we found our next meeting location.

Our first joint/married income tax return was his third year solo-pastoring this church… his net income was around $14,000.

In 1998, just prior to me giving birth to our first child, we moved the church a few streets over, still on the second floor (the more stairs you have to climb, the cheaper the rent), but this time above a sports store—no more pot-filled Wednesday night prayer meetings. We met in that old purple and gold Jamaican nightclub for six years.

Three children and ten years of solo-pastoring later, he finally cracked the $30,000 mark.

Around this time, God started speaking to Dave about thinking big… Isaiah 54:2, “Enlarge the place of your tent, and let the curtains of your habitations be stretched out; do not hold back; lengthen your cords and strengthen your stakes.” That Scripture became a beacon to him. He meditated on it day and night.

In 2004, our church purchased our first building! That was a miracle all on its own… an old ambulance headquarters close to the downtown core, coming in at around 6,000 sq ft. We had a lot of renovations to do, but if you read this testimony… you’ll know God’s hand was on it from the beginning!

During this whole remodelling process, I was expecting our 4th child. While I was in labour, Dave had to leave me early to go back to the church to finish installing insulation for an inspection the next morning. To say the least, Dave came down with walking pneumonia from all the hours he was putting into getting this place together. All the stress and weight on his shoulders that had to do with inspections, permits and getting the money to do everything took its toll.

Once the grand re-opening took place, our doctor ordered Dave to rest. We took off in my parent’s RV for a month, exploring the West Coast and driving across the US with a 5-week-old, 3-year-old, 5 1/2 yr old, a 7-year-old and Dave’s dad. That was an adventure!

My husband is a dreamer, and he knew God wasn’t done with the thinking big part…

We sold that building in 2010 to a Spanish-speaking congregation (part of the same denomination Dave left in 1992), and in 2011, we purchased a 17,000 sq ft commercial property. We rent out nearly half of the building to other businesses, allowing us to focus on ministry-related projects rather than mortgage payments! We’ve become known among our friends in ministry as the little church that could.

 
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We’re almost finished with the remodelling project on this property. We’ve taken the empty warehouse portion of the building and turned it into our new meeting space. I’ve watched the grey hairs grow in on Dave’s head. It’s been a hard process, but we’re nearly at the end. During all of this, he was part of the construction crew, project manager, property manager, accountant and bookkeeper, to name just a few. A lot of weight has rested on his shoulders. Again. Dealing with the city regarding zoning and taxes and a couple of Revenue Canada audits later… A lot of sleepless nights. Again. More tears than ever, and thoughts battled if it would ever get done.

Over the years, we’ve married and buried our friends (and both of Dave’s parents who were founding members), we’ve dedicated babies and grand-babies, and we’ve cried and laughed, rejoiced and mourned with them. He is still the solo pastor. We’ve had our highs and lows with this congregation. We’ve had people leave our church angry, and we’ve seen people start their own ministries, go on mission trips around the world and bring increase into the Kingdom of God. We’ve been screamed at, sworn at, threatened, robbed, and blessed beyond measure. We’ve taken teenagers into our home, and we’ve helped wives leave their abusive spouses. We’ve sent people to the four corners of this globe on humanitarian aid and mission trips. We’ve helped people learn to budget, gain life skills, get a higher education, increase their job skills and buy their first homes. We’ve helped start businesses, loaned out money, bailed out of jail, delivered divorce papers, dropped off people at rehab, babysat children, and sat in hospital rooms night after night. We’ve gone on hundreds of camping, canoeing, and road trips with people. We’ve even taken some on vacation with us. 🙂 There are a lot of memories to go through! 

Well… we’re celebrating our Church’s 20th Anniversary this weekend, and soon, there will be another re-opening and maybe even a possible name change. It’s been quite the journey.

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I feel there’s a new book about to be written… so here’s to new beginnings!!

It all wouldn’t have been possible if one man named Dave had not listened when God asked him to step out in faith and start something others said couldn’t be done… He’s made a lot of sacrifices: time, talent and treasure – blood, sweat and tears so that New Song Church and World Outreach could be born and thrive.  Happy 20th Babe!  

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I wrote this article 3 years ago; I need to add to it… our 99.9% finished commercial building, where we now rent out nearly 3/4 of it, and our tenants are paying 100% of our mortgage, and our renovations, which may have taken five years, were completed completely debt-free. My dad taught my husband how to do that! See those renovations here. How many churches can say that?! Happy 23rd birthday NSC!

Shash

I'm the Cool Mom of 4, Married to the Preacher Man, but at times I'm a little more Sass than Saint!

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33 Comments

  1. Beautiful! I don't know Dave, but I do know you a bit. Your story renews my faith at a time when I've been struggling. The good you have brought to the world because of Gods hand is nothing short of a miracle. I pray that you and Dave continue to move forward but that his health didn't take a heavy toll.
    Much love and respect.
    Xoxo

    1. Thanks Coleen! I really appreciate your kind words.

  2. Happy Anniversary to the only church and group of people who have made me feel loved and welcomed. xo

    1. MOAH!! xoxooxox darling. you're a kind soul 🙂

  3. I miss you so much I am crying.

    1. B, come for a visit! We miss you and your lovelies too. xoxoxoxox

      24 McIntryre Place in the Huron Business Park, service starts at 10:30am

  4. Happy Anniversary. It is lovely when dreams come true.

    1. Thank you Catherine! when you stick to it, things happen.

  5. Happy Anniversary! What a great story! You both should be very proud of what you've built 🙂 Very heartwarming.

  6. Congratulations, guys! That is an amazing achievement and further proof that amazing things can happen if you are willing to put in the work!

    1. Thanks Chris. See… persistence pays off 🙂

  7. What a great story. You husband sounds like an amazing man and I'm glad that things have worked out so well for you and your congregation.

  8. What awesome progress..I got goosebumps reading about it.

    Happy Easter.

    1. I was up until 4am writing it, I kept crying remembering everything. I can't wait to put together the photos for the 20th birthday party 🙂

  9. Congratulations to all those who have contributed to the Church in the past and present. Blessings on the Leadership as the body at New Song continues to grow. Without a Vision My People Perish. Love from Mom and Dad

    1. Thank you Mom and Dad. You've been my example for something sticking with it, never giving up and always watching (trying to anyways) our words. You didn't just teach me to tie my shoes and ride a bike… FAITH is a big part of what you imprinted onto my heart.

      LOVE YOU!!

      xoxoxox

  10. What an amazing story of faith. Congratulations on your 20 year anniversary….God has great plans for the next 20, I'm sure!

    1. Thank you so much Pam. 🙂

  11. God is good, all the time, his love endures forever.
    Well done my good and faithful servants!
    May you be blessed with many more years of ministry.

    1. Jody those are some of my favourite bits of Scripture! 🙂 xoxoxo

  12. Congrats! I may come out to visit your church soon!

    1. That'd be great Pam! See you soon… 🙂

  13. What a great testament to that wonderful husband of yours (and to both of your spirit of adventure!) Congratulations on this awesome milestone in your lives!

    1. Thank you Jennifer. With what we've been through… there's not a lot that scares us. lol Risk Takers!!

  14. Congratulations to you, your husband, family and church!

  15. Quite an interesting story. Thanks for sharing it.

    It just goes to show you what support, sweat, hard work and faith can do. "If you build it, they will come…"

    Congratulations. Here's to 20 more great but less stressful years!

    Besos, Sarah
    Blogger at Journeys of The Zoo
    journeysofthezoo at hotmail dot com

  16. What an amazing journey. Congratulations on 20 years.

  17. Dave and Shash – This incredible faith-filled journey is the result of two people who have trusted God completely and relied on each other immensely Congratulations on 20 years and here is to at least that many more. God bless. You are both an unbelievable inspiration to all of us over here.

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